I want to hear more about the turbo acceptance. It seems like the perfect way to unveil the LIE. Reminds me a bit of that Cosby show way back in the dark ages of the 1980's when the oldest son wanted to move out. And so the family all did a pantomime of the responsibilities he would incur. Rent, cleaning, furnishing,etc. it was a brilliant show. Demonstrating that he was nowhere near ready to live independently.
Demonstration is everything. This is about handing back all the power that these kids want. They HAVE it! However it requires work. Guidance. I know how hard it is. As a stepmom I had half the kids my Mom had, for half the time. What an absolute breather for me, and I know it. And I get to report back for others- I knew and could sense they just needed me to look at them. Validate them. Respect their minds. I really get the aspect of the trans pushers that emphasize validating a kid's knowing him/herself. They do. However too much of this is a false validation, because they weren't validated in crucial and subtle ways ALL along. I'm sorry, but a kid cant go from being ignored and cuddling a screen to knowing themselves. And a parent can't go from being a short sighted underachiever with their kid, to a hero for validating gender. But if you ask me that is happening, daily.
Yep. Crucial subtleties and spiritual accountability required. And I’m referring to jargon from “groomers” but also some incredibly harsh Christian believers, which I understand, but wince at because they are advancing the divide.
I want to hear more about the turbo acceptance. It seems like the perfect way to unveil the LIE. Reminds me a bit of that Cosby show way back in the dark ages of the 1980's when the oldest son wanted to move out. And so the family all did a pantomime of the responsibilities he would incur. Rent, cleaning, furnishing,etc. it was a brilliant show. Demonstrating that he was nowhere near ready to live independently.
and yes that Cosby show reference is exactly it!! thanks for inspiring a spiritual rant from me, as you so often do LOL
Demonstration is everything. This is about handing back all the power that these kids want. They HAVE it! However it requires work. Guidance. I know how hard it is. As a stepmom I had half the kids my Mom had, for half the time. What an absolute breather for me, and I know it. And I get to report back for others- I knew and could sense they just needed me to look at them. Validate them. Respect their minds. I really get the aspect of the trans pushers that emphasize validating a kid's knowing him/herself. They do. However too much of this is a false validation, because they weren't validated in crucial and subtle ways ALL along. I'm sorry, but a kid cant go from being ignored and cuddling a screen to knowing themselves. And a parent can't go from being a short sighted underachiever with their kid, to a hero for validating gender. But if you ask me that is happening, daily.
The term"fake validation " says it all. It is the vulnerable kids who are susceptible to the trans groomers.
Yep. Crucial subtleties and spiritual accountability required. And I’m referring to jargon from “groomers” but also some incredibly harsh Christian believers, which I understand, but wince at because they are advancing the divide.
As always- deeply meaningful-🌺
Thank you, Robin ♥️